LOVE from my perspective!!!!!!

Many people think that they are in love with a person because they like them alot or because they are with them, when the truth really is that nine times out of ten they are not in love. I have seen many  girls do crazy things for guys because they thought that they were in love with them. I thought I was in love before and that actually changed when I found my husband and really fell in love and now I look back at my old relationships and laugh at myself for actually thinking that I was in love.

Now I see what love feels like and even though I don't think no one really know what love is I think that everyone can see what it feels like.

Here are some reasons girl have told me they were in love before when I asked them were they in love.

1) Because we together all day...

2) Because he left his last girlfriend for me...

3) Because he told me he wanted to have his baby...
4) Because he let me sleep over at his house all the time...
5) Because he gets me whatever I ask for....

There are many more reasons that some girls have came up with when I ask them why do they think they are in love but these just really blew me away... I can understand that a new couple would like to spend alot of time together but that doesn't mean that they are in love. For the rest of the reasons I don't see what girl would actually believe they love a guy because he said or do some of those things...

Here is what love feels like from my perspective and my experience with my husband...
1) You think about that person more than you think about anything else..
2) No matter how long you have been in a relationship every time you see that person you still get butterflies in your stomach...
3) You can think of your future and still see that person in it in some way shape or form....
4) When your mad at that person you laugh inside because you just want to hug them or kiss them....
5) That person shows that they love you just as much as you love them...
6) They tell you that they love you everyday... Sometimes more than once a day...
7) They do things for you and not because of a holiday but because you were on their mind...
8) They often finish your sentences before you can get the words out of your mouth...
9) You cant wait to get away from what you are doing just to see that person....
10) That person shows you that they would do anything for you no matter what....

To me that is love now I may have alot more to learn about love but this is what I think love is form my experience. People have their own experiences of love and have their own idea of what love is this is just something from my experience and perspective...

Here is  a pic of me and my husband....

We have been through the fire and the storm in our relationship but we never let that break us we always get through it and come out stronger.......

I believe that with honesty, trust, and communication any relationship can make it. The people in it just have to be willing to work on it.. Love if like a job sometimes you have good days and sometimes you have bad days. Sometimes you wanna quit but you don't wanna let go of all the good that you have got out of it......