Style

What is style? Is it a way of life, something you live by, or just the clothes you put on the satisfy the outside world. People dress in many different ways. Everyone has their own style some just may not have discovered it yet. It takes time to learn what your fashion style is because style is more than just the clothes on your back or the shoes on your feet. fashion and style represents you and who you are and where your going. Once you have discovered your fashion style you have established yourself as a unique member of society..

Style is important because it separates you from other members of society. Not everyone is going to agree with your style but you shouldnt change it because you get a few frowns or weird looks. Your style represents you and no one can change it.

You will know when you have discovered you fashion style. You will know it when the clothes you buy begin to represent you.
you will know when you have found your style when people who are close to you are out shopping and think of you when they see a certian shirt or shoes.

Once you have discovered you style you will feel secure in who you are and feel confident in everything that you wear. Its just a matter of trying to impress yourself instead of trying to impress others.

Here are some tips on discovering your own style.
1) Wear what represents you.
2) Be original.
3) Be confident in what you wear.
4) Try a variety of things.
5) Always dress to impress.

You style should make others turn their heads to look at you. Your style should make you walk with your head held high.
Your style should be how you feel.
Your style should be who you are.

Be You, Be Original, Be Fashion, Be Style.

Change!!

In life people go through many changes. Some are good and some are bad. No matter what kind of change you are facing you should try to get the best out of the situation.
I had to deal with change a while back when i had my daughter, got married, and moved away to a new state. Yes the change was good but it took some getting use to because I was going to be away from my family and friends. However I did get use to the new change and I am happy that I went through it.

LOVE from my perspective!!!!!!

Many people think that they are in love with a person because they like them alot or because they are with them, when the truth really is that nine times out of ten they are not in love. I have seen many  girls do crazy things for guys because they thought that they were in love with them. I thought I was in love before and that actually changed when I found my husband and really fell in love and now I look back at my old relationships and laugh at myself for actually thinking that I was in love.

Now I see what love feels like and even though I don't think no one really know what love is I think that everyone can see what it feels like.

Here are some reasons girl have told me they were in love before when I asked them were they in love.

1) Because we together all day...

2) Because he left his last girlfriend for me...

3) Because he told me he wanted to have his baby...
4) Because he let me sleep over at his house all the time...
5) Because he gets me whatever I ask for....

There are many more reasons that some girls have came up with when I ask them why do they think they are in love but these just really blew me away... I can understand that a new couple would like to spend alot of time together but that doesn't mean that they are in love. For the rest of the reasons I don't see what girl would actually believe they love a guy because he said or do some of those things...

Here is what love feels like from my perspective and my experience with my husband...
1) You think about that person more than you think about anything else..
2) No matter how long you have been in a relationship every time you see that person you still get butterflies in your stomach...
3) You can think of your future and still see that person in it in some way shape or form....
4) When your mad at that person you laugh inside because you just want to hug them or kiss them....
5) That person shows that they love you just as much as you love them...
6) They tell you that they love you everyday... Sometimes more than once a day...
7) They do things for you and not because of a holiday but because you were on their mind...
8) They often finish your sentences before you can get the words out of your mouth...
9) You cant wait to get away from what you are doing just to see that person....
10) That person shows you that they would do anything for you no matter what....

To me that is love now I may have alot more to learn about love but this is what I think love is form my experience. People have their own experiences of love and have their own idea of what love is this is just something from my experience and perspective...

Here is  a pic of me and my husband....

We have been through the fire and the storm in our relationship but we never let that break us we always get through it and come out stronger.......

I believe that with honesty, trust, and communication any relationship can make it. The people in it just have to be willing to work on it.. Love if like a job sometimes you have good days and sometimes you have bad days. Sometimes you wanna quit but you don't wanna let go of all the good that you have got out of it......

What is true beauty?

OK so the media has imprinted this picture in many peoples heads that beauty is a girl who is very thin or a man who has a really good looking six pack.

That is not beauty true beauty comes from within. If your are on the plus sized side or the middle or even very thin. If you have really dark skin or really light skin your still beautiful. If your hair is long to your behind or really short your still beautiful.

I use to be self conscious when I was younger and use to have low self-esteem because I felt that I wasn't beautiful. And back then to me beauty meant that your skin was light your hair was long and you were really thin well then I grew up and realized I an a very beautiful person. Some things that made my self-esteem low was that my hair was really short and that my skin was really dark I would wish for longer hair and lighter skin because that is what the media as well as other people around me made me think was beautiful.

Well now today I have a different image in my head on what is beauty. I believe that a person with a really good personality as well as have confidence in themselves and feels good about themselves as well as does not allow others judgements to bring him or her down is a person with true beauty. I mean I know that sometimes people can be cruel and say things to you that really hit home but you can rise above that and keep strutting with your head held high then you are a truly beautiful person.

Tips on true beauty.

1) Scratch the media's image of beauty out of your mind.

2) Don't let others judgements lower your self esteem.

3)Think highly of yourself.                                      

                                4) Identify certain traits that stand out on yourself and embrace them.

                          5) Love yourself no matter what anyone else thinks about you.

Don't let other people make you think that you are less beautiful because you are and its time that you start acting like it and embrace your beauty.

Gotta Shape It Up!!!

I really need to get in shape. I am not over weight or anything but I feel like if I keep eating like I do I will become over weight. I am 133 pounds and 5 foot 2. So I think that is pretty healthy for my age.

This is a view of me!!!

 I started cutting back on the fast food and all the food that have a lot of calories. I also started cutting back on sodas. I just need to get more motivated to work out because I am pretty positive that if I start hitting my squats and my sit ups I would be good.

I personally have a real problem with food. Its like every time I try to diet I never succeed because I give into my weakness which is ...

Now see that's fat man status right there.........

I don't know I need to learn how to have more mind control so that I wont give in to foods that I really like. I mean I know its ok to eat chicken but I would eat it and all the other foods that I love so much all the time. So now its time for my to get in shape.

I am going on a strict diet that is healthy I am going to cut back on

Junk food,

fast food,

sodas,

candy,

fried foods, and

greasy foods. and start to eat more

vegetables,

salads,

lightly seasoned foods,

smaller meals.

 I am starting to hit the gym at least five times a week.

running on the treadmill,

lifting some hand weights,

working out my legs,

arms,

and stomach.

I really need to start living a healthy lifestyle because I would hate to become over weight as well as get sick from some type of illness do to my careless eating and lack of exercise.

Will update on my progress!!!!

New Beginnings

OK well I am new to this whole blogging thing and decided to create one just because I am making alot of changes in my life. Getting ready for new life adventures and now I am opening myself up to things that I am not use to. What really got me at this point of making changes in my life is a personality assessment that I had to take for my psychology class. The assessment told me that I am a person who settle for comfort instead of rising above the safe zone. I thought that test was rigged and that it was lying because I always do things that are beyond. at least that was what I thought. So now I have a new outlook on life to live it to the fullest because I am only twenty years old.


Here are some goals : Range of 5 years.
Graduate college with 4.0
Get a good job in my career field.
Go on a trip out of the country before I reach 25.
Stay in shape
Eat more healthier
Learn how to balance my money. (shopping kills me)
Try things that I wouldn't normally try..........




I am really happy that I have come to this part in my life where I am More aware of my life's direction. Many girl my age are still clueless as to what it is they want to do with themselves. At least I have a few good goals lined up for myself.

I think that everyone should take time out to think about their life and what direction it is going in and if its in the wrong direction you should TURN IT AROUND.